Obituary of Douglas Brian Whaley

November 24, 1948 – May 12, 2025

It is with deep sadness that the family of Douglas Brian Whaley announces his sudden passing on May 12, 2025, at the age of 76. 

Doug is lovingly remembered by his devoted wife, Lyn (Carolyn); his son, Cameron; his daughters, Season and Willow; and his beloved grandchildren: Skylar (“sidekick,” who took him to the cottage every weekend), Lake, Blaise, and Luna—each one deeply cherished. Also mourning his loss is his faithful dog, Phantom, his favourite girl! Doug is remembered by countless friends and extended family—too many to name, but all forever touched by his kindness, humour, and unwavering generosity.

Doug was a big-hearted husband, father, grandfather, and friend—a man who gave freely of his time, knowledge, and love. He found great joy at the cottage and lodges, where he could be found boating, fishing, hosting parties, relaxing on the dock with his family, watering flowers, and soaking in the beauty of nature. These quiet moments were among his greatest joys.

Professionally, Doug dedicated his life to the family business, where his work in the design and fabrication of specialized equipment left a lasting legacy. Doug’s projects spanned industries such as pharmaceuticals, pulp and paper, mining, ethanol, aerospace, and hydro—designing pressure vessels, from modest sizes to some of the largest ever built in Manitoba. His deep knowledge of engineering design and industrial codes made him a trusted voice to governments, companies, and educational institutions alike.

Doug’s expertise reached across borders, with his work supporting projects throughout Canada, the United States, Europe, and South America. Even last month, he received a call about a vessel bearing an Acme Name Plate from 1980—a testament to the enduring impact of his work.

Doug also served on the boards of Red River College, Industrial Tech, and the Welding Institute, generously sharing his knowledge and mentoring many throughout his career. Doug’s contributions to the industry were substantial, but it was his friendships and quiet wisdom that left the deepest mark.

More than anything, Doug loved his family and the simple joys of life at the lake. He hand-built his dream log cottage at Beresford in Nopiming Provincial Park, raced boats on Star Lake, and learned and taught scuba diving in the early days of diving. His dream was always to retire at Lake of the Woods —a dream he was able to live, even if not in retirement.

Doug especially treasured his fishing trips to Great Slave Lake and the remote North, shared with his father, Skylar, and many beloved friends.

He worked hand in hand with his wife, daughter and grandson in the family business.  He was a man who asked his daughter not to “lay him off or fire him”—forever devoted, forever involved.

As per Doug’s wishes, there will be no formal service. The family will honour him privately, in the places and ways that meant most to him.

Doug’s legacy lives on through the many lives he touched, the knowledge he passed on, and the love he gave so freely. He will be missed beyond measure.

I am a thousand winds that blow

I am the diamond glints on snow

I am the sun on ripen grain

I am the gentle Autumn rain

I am the soft star shine at night

I am the man that loved and was loved